The best way to achieve adult love is to develop the most important relationship skill. Witnessing includes the ability to hold your partner’s perspectives alongside your own and to see yourself through your partners’ eyes. Witnessing can give an accurate picture of any given interaction and the relationship as a whole. No matter how accurate one partner’s perspective might be, it’s an incomplete picture without the other’s alongside it. With binocular vision, you don’t give up your perspective, you enrich it, through a deeper understanding of your partner’s. Only binocular vision allows you to see more deeply into the heart of your partner, while observing your part in the interaction.— Read on www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201805/the-most-important-relationship-skillNo tags for this post.